I guess it is to be predicted that Gord will have an up day followed by a down day. He really was tired today but did rally around to sing Happy Birthday to Vonnie! We were trying to think of songs to sing because he chimes in with all the right words when we get started. It was really very cute. At the end of Happy Birthday he added "and happy more"....
I feel kind of silly relating all these little landmarks but I think it may help others who find themselves in my position some day to have hope and never give up. I have certainly met people in worse situations than mine on Gord's ward and some of my time is spent comforting them as well. It makes me realize we are all in this together.
If you get a chance to look up Aphasia it will explain what Gord is going through right now. It is so difficult to interpret what he is trying to say but he sure has a lot to get out. Sometimes he just talks away with his hand waving in the air like he is really trying to get something done. I try my best to help him figure out what he wants me to know. It is a challenge for sure!
Well, I am off to bed.....it is snowing and going down to -17 tonight....brrrrrrrrrr.
Love to all
Sheila
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Sheila, Gord & Family
ReplyDeleteOur family has been reading the 'Gordon Uptake' with much interest and anticipation. Personally, I can hardly endure the wait to get home from work to view the new notes. Sheila, most of our family have not met you, but I feel I know you! Know that much of Gordon's recovery has been due to your strong support and love; your patience, perseverance and encouragement. You have been blessed with many "gifts". PRAYERS, LOVE and FAITH from ALL your family and friends have no doubt played an immense part in Gord's recovery, also. We are so happy that Gord is rallying; remember a "down" day is a part of the healing process--the body and spirit's way of "refueling". Continue to lean on each other; that's what FAMILIES are for! Remember that caretakers also need to take care of themselves, so they can continue to caretake!! God Bless You All! Love & Prayers,
Sandra, for Uncle Alex & Aunt Barbara & Family
HI SHEILA
ReplyDeleteI START EACH DAY CHECKING ON GORDS PROGRESS.IT IS INPORTANT FOR US TO HEAR ABOUT LESS ACTIVE DAYS AS WELL AS THE GREAT DAYS.SHEILA AND FAMILY IT IS YOUR STRENGTH& POSITIVE ATTITUDE THAT HELPS GORD.YOU CONTINUE TO COME UP WITH NEW CHALLANGES,AND GORD SEEMS TO RISE TO THE OCCASION.OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALL DAY AND EVERYDAY.
DAN & CHERYL
Good Morning Sheila
ReplyDeleteI enjoy reading everything you have to say about Gord's progress and then relaying the news to Leni and our children.
One thing about brain injuries is if they are tired they do tend to be a little more confused and he is probably very tired because as usual Gord does not quit until he gets done what he has started.
We feel very fortunate to share this journey with you. Take care of yourself.
Sandy and Leni
Greetings from Oregon,
ReplyDeleteHappy Valentine's Day to both of you. I have been away from the computer for a while and today decided I needed to catch up on all the news about Gord. I am amazed at the good reports and we sing the praises of the doctors and people that are working with him and you too Sheila. And thank you so much for all the reports no matter how small it gives us all hope in knowing prayer works. We not only pray for Gord but also for you, Sheila, for strength and renewed spirit. God is good and He will see you through this bump in the road.
Love,
Dorothy Hrabal